Joe and familyI am sorry for the loss of your sister. I wish you all peace.

John Shiel

Minhas Condolências a essa família amada por todos. eu assistir o File da Caroline aqui no Brasil e me emocionei muito..Que deus abençoe essa família..

Mr found. Im jon Ferguson from il im sorry about caroline and ellyn my prays with you and your daughter Catherine. Gregg may god bless you. your fan Jon Ferguson xx

Ernie,

I regret that I just found out about Ellyn's passing. I am saddened by this tremendously as I have wonderful memories of Ellyn as an OT at Lahey Clinic when I was an orthopedic resident with Ernie in the Boston University program. I was at Ernie & Ellyn's wedding. I remember her as a warm, engaging, vibrant, beautiful and classy lady. She is sorely missed. I can't imagine the pain and despair my old & good friend (& former roommate) Ernie and his family endured last August. My thoughts and prayers are with you everyday.

Warm regards

Arnie Schwartz

I am so saddened to see this. I have been searching for Ellyn for at least three years on facebook and today was the first time I got a result. Ellyn lived in Poughkeepise, NY before the family moved to Binghamton. Both our fathers worked for IBM. I was heartbroken when the family moved, as Ellyn and I were nearly inseparable for a couple of years. He family was the only one I knew that was bigger than my own!

Bridge with Ellyn, Linda Dellsperger and Teresa Weiner was something I looked forward to every two weeks while living in Iowa City. Ellyn and I shared a taste for Stolichniya Pepper vodka. I don't think you can get it anymore but if I find it I will drink in her memory. I remember the farm-tractor rides with the kids, all of her hard work. She embraced her life with her children, her husband and life on the farm She was a terrific daughter. I remember her talking about her daily phone calls to her mom and expressed her concern about her mom's disease. She was a constant support. I love the picture you submitted. That is who I remember, beautiful, happy with such a gorgeous and genuine smile.

Joan Dreicer

Bentleyville, OH

Dear Ernie and all the family,

It has been a long time since we have seen each other, back in Batavia, New York. Ruth and I, however, have rich and wonderful memories of how much the Found family has meant to us through the years.

No words can capture the heartfelt sadness we feel for you and the entire Found and Slocum families in the deaths of your precious Caroline and Ellyn. They were both, as we have read in these pages, strong women of love and compassion, who lived joyful and faith-filled lives. In these days of grieving their physical absence from your lives, may you know the life, the peace, and the hope that is ours through the one who is the light of life, the way, and the truth, even Jesus Christ.

And may God's love wrap and enfold you, embrace you and guide you, and bring you comfort.

In Christ,

John and Ruth Dunham, Green Valley, Arizona

To all the Slocum and Found families,

Having just recently learned of the passing of Ellyn,I am still in disbelief. I am a senior cousin,old enough to have baby-sat Ellyn and the younger siblings.She was such an absolute delight to be around- the warmest, most personable, and genuinely sincere person ever. I was not aware of her serious medical condition and am so sorry for her loss.

When I realized that her teenage daughter had also just recently passed,it was too much to take in- the unimaginable grief you must all be feeling is beyond my understanding. Please know that I care.

Sincerely,

Carla (Slocum) Blechman In Vestal,NYPCF

Ernie and Family,

Ernie, very sorry to hear of your wife's passing. She sounds like she was a very stong and giving person. Nadine Klein Pacino

Gregg, can't begin to express my condolences to you and your family. I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. We're all here for you. YITB, Brad

Dear Ernie,

I was contacted by Margaret (glaser) in regards to your wife's passing. Just wanted to say you are in my prayers. May God's mercies be with you in the following months.

I am so sorry for your loss. Ellyn was a wonderful woman. I remember her from hot yoga, she was just a doll!

My prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time of loss. Please know that your church family and friends in Batavia are praying for you.

We are very sorry to hear of your recent losses.Hard to lose the people you love but God will be with them and you.

Sorry that you have had to suffer 2 devastating losses in a short time..her and your daughter are joined together in eternal life. Please know many prayers are with you even from friends you don't know.

My condolences to Dr Found and his family. I met Ellyn in 2004. She helped me rehabilitate my hand after a tramatic injury and surgeries. Her warm smile, dedication and gentle care will always remain in my memories. I worked with Dr Found as a surgical radiographer for many yrs. at the U of Ia

The kula (community) at Heartland Yoga was stronger and brighter because of Ellyn's presence. Her smile was warm and deep and broad enough to include all of us new and old yoginis. On gray winter days, her presence was the sunshine that lit up the room. Her grace and sincerity will be with me, and with the kula, always. My life was richer having known her.Nancy

Ernie and family, We were so sorry to learn of your losses. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ernie,

My heartfelt prayers and respect are with you and your family.

Paul

I did not have the privilege of knowing Ellyn or her daughter, Caroline, but I feel compelled to write that the Slocum family is rooted firmly in my thoughts and heart as they weather these hard times of loss and sorrow. I hope they will find peace.

to the family of Ellyn and Caroline,

We do not know each other, but we we have known love, loss and sorrow and send you our profound sympathy on this double loss so close together.

Found Family

My sincere sympathy. I never met Ellyn in person, but from what everyone has said, she was loved. Will remember you in my daily prayers.

Joyce Faughnan

Dear Ones -

We are so saddened to learn of your great losses this month of Ellyn

and her daughter Caroline. That is so difficult to bear, but we pray

your happy memories of each will help bring peace to your hearts.

We want you to know we share in your sorrow and are remembering

all of you in our prayers.

We will always remember the good old days of being your neighbors.

To Ernie, children, and all of the Found Family: Our hearts go out to all of you in this additional heartache and loss. We can only guess what these days and weeks have been like for all of you. We can do little, but we offer our prayers for your strength. May you be lifted up by the kind thoughts and wishes of people near and far. Caroline and Ellyn will watch over all of you. Sincere sympathy, Lorraine & Dan Rybak

My son, Justin, is good friends with Catharine. I remember how gracious Ellyn was to host the pre-prom party at her farm, and I came over to take pictures of Justin and his date. Ellyn was so gracious to do this for the kids; she loved the hosting, and we had a great time as parents just enjoying the moments in our kids' lives. Thank you Ellyn, for your hospitality! Justin loved going out there. I think the farm was a peaceful place and time for his to visit. I have a quote to share from my sister-in-law's father who just passed yesterday. ""We think we are in the land of the living headed for the land of the dying when in reality we are in the land of the dying headed for the land of the living." Ellyn and Caroline await for the rest of us!

At the time, I knew her only as "my Customer". During the day I waited on her at the drive-thru bank. At night, I would check her out through my line at the grocery store. One night, as I was checking her out at the grocery store, we struck up a conversattion. She rembmered me from the bank that same day. We talked about the challenges of working two jobs and taking care of family. I explained to her that I was working 2 jobs to help pay for a plane ticket to fly to Boston for my brother's wedding. She smiled and I could tell she approved of my endeavor. Our conversation ended and so did the transaction. She was supposed to receive cash back. She walked out the door. An hour later, the manager told me a woman had called saying she was sure she had her change but must have dropped it outside in the parking lot. He asked me if I recalled any of the transaction. My eyes lit up and I realized that in our friendly banter we had both forgotten about the change. I explained it to the manager and told him the extra cash would be in the drawer when he counted it out later that night. It was. The manager called her and told her sh could pick up the money the next day.

Ernie, My deepest sympathy to you and your family at this most difficult time. May God give you comfort and the strength to endure.

To the Found family,

I was so heartbroken to read of Ellyn's passing. Ellyn and my sister Karen

were best friends in Catholic Central. I remember Ellyn's fun-loving,down

to earth personality. She never failed to light up a room with her attitude.

I am also certain that her recently lost daughter was just like her mom. God

Bless the whole family. I firmly believe that your humble, loving spirits like

your wife and your mom's, will guide you through this tragedy. Ellyn will

always be a part of each of you.

To the Found & Slocum Families:

My deepest and most sincere condolences are with you all during this unimaginably difficult time in your lives. I pray that the fond memories of our youth strengthen with each passing day so as to reflect the calmer times in life. But for now...My heart cries with yours. God Bless and please know my love and prayers are with you all.

Dave Schramm

Dear Found & Slocum Families....my deepest sympathies. I feel blessed to have known Ellyn. She was one of the warmest, energetic and positive people I have ever encountered.

Dr. Found and family:

Although I was never fortunate to have met Ellyn, I wanted to express my deepest sympathy. I can not imagine what the Found family must be going through, but I will have them in my prayers. My wish for you is to "stay strong" for one another, stay close, celebrate the time that you shared with Caroline and now Ellyn. But most of all, lean on Jesus!

Dear Dr Found, Gregg and Catherine,

Dear Dr. Found and Family:

Ernie, Gregg and Catharine:

Ernie, Catherine, and Gregg -

Very sorry to hear of Ellyn's passing. I worked with her at Progressive some years ago and really enjoyed her beautiful spirit. Her smile always made my day brighter. Ellyn will be missed.

Gregg and Family,

'We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. We pray that you will have a peace that surpasses your understanding. Paul and Heather Carr

I can not express the sadness I felt when i saw your wife/mothers obituary in the paper. After just lossing a daughter/sister it's almost overwelming. Your family is in the thoughts and prayers of many whom like myself did not have the pleasure of knowing them...I just wanted you to know how deeply sorry I am for both of your losses ....both had touched so many even in death. God Bless you all.

Dear Found Family, Fourteen years ago I met Ellyn at the beginning of the school year at Weber Elem. She then introduced me to Liz Lockhart. Liz and I have since become very good friends, as have our daughters Sara and Calea, and I have Ellyn to thank for that! I also have very fond memories of Ellyn (and her treats!) at Northwest Jr. High PSTO meetings. She was a wonderful person who will be missed by all who knew her. Our prayers are with your whole family. Ann, Richard, Sara and Jane Burton

Dearest Ernie and family,my heart aches for the loss of two of your beautiful ladies in your life.Thinking of you all. Sandy Anderson,nursing assistant Orthopedic Clinics UIHC

There are no words to describe the feeling we have in our hearts for your family at this time. We knew Ellyn here in Binghamton and could only describe her as the nicest, kindness, caring person we have ever met. We only hope you can continue your lives knowing that she was in your lives for as long as she was and remember the memories which we are sure were great ones and know now she is taking care of your daughter and sister in Heaven.

Although I have never met your family my heart cries out to all of you for the loss you have sustained this month. I pray you find comfort knowing that your loved ones are looking into the eyes of our loving Lord and he is holding them close. May you find comfort, peace, and strength in the time ahead. God Bless.

To the Found Family: Please accept our condolences to your family. She will be missed by all who know her. Recall the happy time and know that our Heavenly Father will give you peace and support.

My heart goes out to the Found family. I only meet Ellyn 3 times at a volleyball tournament. And each time she talked to me like she knew me forever. She was a wonderful woman. Your thoughts are in my prayers.

To The Found Family,

So sorry for all the pain that your family had to endure this month. Know that your two loved ones are now in God's hand and despite the pain that you are suffering, you must believe that they are at peace. Prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Jan Barne

Nurse at the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics

Dear Catherine and Family,

So very sorry to hear of your loss. I went to St. John's and CCHS with Ellyn. Our parents were friends on the south side and also worked for many years at IBM. Ellyn even made sure I had a date for the Junior Prom! She sure lit up every room/dance/party/basketball game/poncho's pit/rec park/silver lake - all of our HS memories are filled with Ellyn. We will keep your family in our prayers.

Dr Found,

I am very sorry to hear ofv the loss of your wife.

You will continue to be in my prayers.

Jeff Schmitt

Thinking of the Found/Slocum families during this very difficult time. Please know that my family and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Dear Dr. ?Found and family,

Our hearts are breaking for your 2 losses. We didn't know them but know they were both very loving people and well thought of in the community. Our hearts are reaching out to you and you will all be in our thoughts and prayers during the coming days. God gave us the gift of memories and that is what you can lean on during this time of sorrow. Remember the happy times and the fun you all had together. As long as Caroline and Ellyn are in your thoughts and your hearts, they will always be near. May God bles each of you and hold you close in His arms of love and give you comfort.

We will always remember Ellyn's kindness and wonderful smile. We enjoyed visiting with her at West High events over the years. Our deepest sympathy to you.

Lou Ann, Bill, Cara and Mike Montgomery

Ernie, Gregg and Catharine,

We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. May your love and faith keep you strong.

With love,

Michael, Joanne and Cassie Pratt

Dear Dr Found and children,

Although I never knew your wife, my prayers go out to you and your family for the loss of your wife and mother.

I am praying for all of you and may you have peace knowing that your daughter and sister are with her, in a wonderful place.

May God bless you,

Linda Shatto

Dear Ernie, Catharine and Gregg:

When my mother Norma was working at Parent's Day Out she took care of the Found children as babies. My mother loved Ellyn and has always remembered her fondly.

Later,when my daughter was working to get into physical therapy school, she met Ellyn. Again, my daughter really enjoyed her and remembers her friendliness and kindness.

Eventually, I was able to meet Ellyn through Young Life possibly and I was equally impressed by her warmth and she, as she would, remembered my mother and my daughter.

Later yet, my mother in law met Ellyn and was in a small group with her. Ellyn was 30 years younger than my mother in law but enjoyed being in the group with her.

No matter what stage in life Ellyn was in, no matter the age of the friend, or the connection, Ellyn's warmth and personality was always unforgettable.

I was later able to meet Ernie and their children. It was easy to see that Ernie and Ellyn's mark on their children was a positive one. We will keep the Founds in our thoughts and prayers.

Our hearts and prayers are with you.

".....HIS understanding is beyond measure." Ps. 147:5.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family as you deal with your losses. ...Shaun

Dr. Found, you have been such a blessing to our family as you have treated Jessica and myself many times. We know you are a man of integrity and faith. You have been in our prayers and will continue to be for a long time. The Lord will walk with you and your family thorugh these losses. Cherish the memories you have made as a family and know your family has touched others in countless ways.

Ernie Sr & Eleanor Found & kids were the kindest family to me growing up in Batavia. I first met Ellyn during a sad time for the family & was immediately taken with her smile & personality & was very happy for Ernie to have her in his life. Although I've only seen their children a few times through the years I saw what a wonderful family the next generation of Founds had! When my husband met Ellyn at their niece's wedding, he often mentioned what a positive person she was! He also said how impressive the entire family was- grandparents, nieces, nephews, cousins- just amazing. Our thoughts & prayers cover your whole family. No words can convey the true pain felt for Ernie, Gregg & Catharine.

With much love & prayers- Kristi & Jim Houseman

Profoundly empathetic with your two losses. Sincere condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Margaret

Ernie, Catharine and Gregg,

I only have a few memories as I really only met you in passing but your laughter and smile were always a nice break in the day. Dr. Found although it may seem that at this time it is too much to handle remember we are only given a load that we can carry. The strength and support you will receive from your friends, family and even the occassional stranger will help you in the days months and years to come. Take it one day at a time and if that seems to long take it minute by minute. No one knows your pain but let them be there to help carry the load. God bless your family in this time of sorrow

Ernie, Greg, and Catherine. We are continuing to hold you up in prayer as you go through this time of sorrow.

Catharine,Gregg and Ernie,

There is nothing more powerful than a mother's love and that was exactly what your mom and your wife exhibited every day of her life. I know she will never ever leave you. May the power of her love accompanied with the love of your beautiful sister,wife and GOD surround you forever!

Sarah

No memories, just wanted to pass along my condolences to your family. I simply cannot fathom your grief. Just know there are many, many people in the community who are here to support your family.

A beautiful angel has just entered Heaven. It is very comforting knowing that those two are back together. My prayers are with you Papa Found, Catherine and Greg. May God's loving arms comfort you at this time.

Dear Ernie and Family:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Jim and Sharon

So so sorry to hear this news. May her memory be eternal.

Love,

Laura & Paul Geigle

Ernie, Greg, Catharine,

Our heartfelt sympathy to you. Ellyn was a loving, giving person (as was Caroline) and she will live on in the memories of all those she touched in some way. Words can not adequately express feelings for the losses you have experienced. Know you are in our prayers and have our support and friendship.

Ernie, Greg, and Catherine,

Bill and I are holding you three in our hearts and prayers. Though no words can offer enough comfort, may the memories and love the that you have known as a family sustain you through this time of such loss. Know that your family has touched many lives in so many, many positive ways. Ellyn personified joy, love, and giving.

Love,

Bill and Celia Burger

Ernie, Greg, and Catherine,

We are so sorry for your loss. There are few words we could speak that could fully express our sadness for you. Please know that you continue to be in our prayers. We will always have such fond memories of you and Ellyn opening your welcoming home and your hearts to all the residents and their families while we were in Iowa City.

We knew of your family, through St. Andrew. My husband, Tom, played softball w/Ernie. We did not have the pleasure of knowing your daughter or your wife personally but, our hearts go out to you and your entire family for your huge loss.