Sorry to hear of your loss!!!!! I used to work with Arlene at NCS prior to 1994. She was such a sweet lady with a great attitude and she was always dressed to the 9's. I also would also run into her at Ecumenical Towers when my dad moved there in 2009 after my mom passed away. What I learned when my mom passed away July 23, 2008 was you take one day at a time, you live for the memories and it shows your support system!